parse-options: multi-word argh should use dash to separate words

"When you need to use space, use dash" is a strange way to say that
you must not use a space.  Because it is more common for the command
line descriptions to use dashed-multi-words, you do not even want to
use spaces in these places.  Rephrase the documentation to avoid
this strangeness.

Fix a few existing multi-word argument help strings, i.e.

 - GPG key-ids given to -S/--gpg-sign are "key-id";
 - Refs used for storing notes are "notes-ref"; and
 - Expiry timestamps given to --expire are "expiry-date".

and update the corresponding documentation pages.

Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>
diff --git a/parse-options.h b/parse-options.h
index d670cb9..8fa02dc 100644
--- a/parse-options.h
+++ b/parse-options.h
@@ -143,7 +143,7 @@
 	{ OPTION_CALLBACK, (s), (l), (v), N_("time"),(h), 0,	\
 	  parse_opt_approxidate_cb }
 #define OPT_EXPIRY_DATE(s, l, v, h) \
-	{ OPTION_CALLBACK, (s), (l), (v), N_("expiry date"),(h), 0,	\
+	{ OPTION_CALLBACK, (s), (l), (v), N_("expiry-date"),(h), 0,	\
 	  parse_opt_expiry_date_cb }
 #define OPT_CALLBACK(s, l, v, a, h, f) \
 	{ OPTION_CALLBACK, (s), (l), (v), (a), (h), 0, (f) }