push --force-with-lease: tie it all together

This teaches the deepest part of the callchain for "git push" (and
"git send-pack") to enforce "the old value of the ref must be this,
otherwise fail this push" (aka "compare-and-swap" / "--lockref").

Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>
diff --git a/remote.h b/remote.h
index ca3c8c8..6c42554 100644
--- a/remote.h
+++ b/remote.h
@@ -107,6 +107,7 @@
 		REF_STATUS_REJECT_NODELETE,
 		REF_STATUS_REJECT_FETCH_FIRST,
 		REF_STATUS_REJECT_NEEDS_FORCE,
+		REF_STATUS_REJECT_STALE,
 		REF_STATUS_UPTODATE,
 		REF_STATUS_REMOTE_REJECT,
 		REF_STATUS_EXPECTING_REPORT